{"id":159,"date":"2013-10-26T02:19:56","date_gmt":"2013-10-26T02:19:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/birthdancemidwifery.com\/?p=4"},"modified":"2021-12-10T16:28:23","modified_gmt":"2021-12-11T00:28:23","slug":"why-i-like-to-hold-babies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/?p=159","title":{"rendered":"Why I like to hold babies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/jen-holding-baby3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-382\" src=\"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/jen-holding-baby3-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"jen-holding-baby3\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Babies smell good. Their sweet milky breath gets me every time. I can\u2019t help myself. When I see a baby wrapped up in a lot of blankets or reclining on a car seat carrier, I\u2019ll find myself undoing straps and taking off blankets almost before I ask permission to pick them up. I think I must be hardwired to bring a baby into my arms and then start the mama dance \u2013 a little swaying bouncing two step that I developed with my own babes that just sets itself in motion.<\/p>\n<p>I notice that we all do it. And that each person\u2019s mama or papa dance is unique. When I was pregnant with Willa I read somewhere that a dad has an uncanny ability to calm their newborn\u2019s cries. Something about their smell, or familiar deep voice, or big comfortable hands. I shared this with my husband who took it in, but didn\u2019t really believe it until it happened. Newborn Willa fell asleep in his arms while he was doing his own version of the daddy dance and hum.<\/p>\n<p>We like to hold babies and babies want to be held. Science tells us that a baby that sleeps on the chest of one of her people will have a regulated heart rate, breathing and temperature. This is great news for premies. It also tells me that science has confirmed what my heart already knows.<\/p>\n<p>I am grateful for all the tools out there that help us hold our babies while we go on with our lives \u2013 slings and ergo carriers, baby bjorns.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds clich\u00e9 and may even be annoying, but our time with our babies goes by fast. Before you know it your oldest daughter has left for college, and your youngest is moving so quickly through their days in high school they barely hves time for a quick hug now and then. So cherish those baby days, even when it\u2019s hard. Relish the fact that your touch can calm your child\u2019s anxiety, can bring a big goofy smile to his face, can ease her back to sleep, even when you\u2019re exhausted. Look for help so you can keep holding your baby.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Babies smell good. Their sweet milky breath gets me every time. I can\u2019t help myself. When I see a baby wrapped up in a lot of blankets or reclining on a car seat carrier, I\u2019ll find myself undoing straps and&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=159"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":677,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159\/revisions\/677"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tillamookclatsopmidwife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}